Yao Sha

Yao Sha
Little Miss Sunshine

Saturday, October 23, 2010

It really is a small world

As we continue the painfully slow wait for our TA we had another great reminder of just how connected all the people you meet along your adoption journey really are.  The very first of course was when we were trying to find an adoption agency who would advocate for us because China requires that you need to be married for 2 years and Paul and I were not (ha-ha, considering we've been together 15 years).  My mother was selling our good  friend's grandmother's house who had just passed away.  The woman who purchased it had two adopted girls from China.  She was a single mother (which China does not typically allow to adopt) so my mother was curious to know who advocated for her.  Long story short it was CAWLI who as you all know is our agency and truly one of the most amazing people we have ever met.

The next connection was of course "Faith".  Last August we were "googling" the steps involved in adoption and came across this family's journey to adopt their daughter Faith. Ironically they live in Seattle were my sister is.  Here is her link. http://faithneveryfootstep.blogspot.com/.  Recently on Faith's blog they posted a picture of a little girl who has achondroplasia dwarfism who just found her forever family.  This girl was in Faith's orphanage, meet Junie.http://itsalwaysjuneinchina.blogspot.com/.  Can you stand how adorable all of these girls are:). Now where this gets interesting is before I learned of Junie and her connection to Faith, her mother Amy had put a post up on another blog about our ShaSha. This was when we first learned that her foster family was no longer able to care for her and that she was going back to the orphanage in September.  This was the blog that changed our lives because it was at that moment when Paul and I knew she needed to be part of our family, it was an amazing moment. It get's better.  Junie also shared the orphanage with another achondroplasia girl named Ava, meet Ava,http://alittlelovefromchina.blogspot.com.  Ava's soon to be forever Mommy is Nancy.  Nancy and I have known each other through LPA since I was 16.  Are you all following this:):)  Now for the finale, after learning of all three of these delicious cuties, we  found out that the orphanage they came from is the other office of ICC...yes where our little miss sunshine is waiting for us. So all three of these children with dwarfism will not only have that bond through LPA but will also have the connection of ICC.

Stay with me because now comes the more recent "WOW" connection.  Recently I met Joan. Joan is also adopting a 9 boy year old from Changsha and we are literally a week apart in our approvals so there is a very good chance (fingers crossed) that we will all meet up in Changsha with our new babes. The fact that her and I met each other is the first "wow" in this story.   Meet Joan and her amazing family. http://www.maybenineisenough.blogspot.com/.  Last night Joan emailed me with the subject line saying "YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BELIEVE THIS"..and was she right.  I'll let you all read the email that, yet again, reminded me of all the amazing people and connections you meet through this life changing journey. 

I was at a local jewelry store today, shopping for a locket for our son's foster mother.  The sales clerk asked me who it was for, I explained a little, she remarked how fast our process was, so I explained about the SN program, and how our son was 9 years old, etc and a woman standing nearby said, "My cousin is adopting from China too!  A little girl who is 9 and has dwarfism, like my cousin and her husband."    I said," ummm, what is your cousin's name?"

Of course, it was you guys!  Her name was Debbie Hoyt. What a small world.  I told her our kids were from the same province and that we were hoping to travel at he same time.  Speaking of which, have you heard anything?  If you get TA next week, when are you going to try to travel?

Joan
Debbie is my cousin who I just adore both her and her family so when I learned of this it was just awesome. It's these moments that remind me that this journey is where Paul and I are suppose to be right now and I find that very comforting to my soul.

Please continue to keep Sha Sha in your thoughts and prayers because once we get that TA (hopefully Monday so stay tuned)  she will then learn about us. I will also be posting pics soon of her "officially" finished bedroom.  Paul has been sanding and painting his dresser he had as a boy and is giving to her so once that is done we will put new pics up.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Article 5-FINALLY

We finally got our Article 5 today which by far seem to take the longest since China was closed last week.  Hopefully we will have our TA in about a week which is huge because then ICC will tell our sunshine that we are coming for her.  Sooooooooo exciting.  Stay tuned and continue to keep our Sha Sha in your thoughts and prayers.