Yao Sha

Yao Sha
Little Miss Sunshine

Monday, April 11, 2011

Sha made the school paper/website

Last Thursday Paul and I had our first parent/teacher conference.  To our delight we got fantastic reports back on Sha, especially in the math department.  Both Ms. S and Ms. W (her ESL teacher) were there and they both emphasized how amazed they were by Sha's determination to want to learn.  Ms. Schofield told us how Sha is constantly raising her hands now in class and asking lots of questions.  She has grown very close with Ella, her new bff who is truly a sweet girl.  During our conference the principal, Merry came in to tell us how amazed she was with Sha's problem solving skills.  So much so that she did a write up in "The Pipeline", that is on the school's website.  Paul and I left that meeting overjoyed and partially in tears (good tears).  We decided to pick up Chinese take out to celebrate her successes so far.  Below is the write up of our little sunshine that we are very proud of.

Rigor at it’s Best
 
One of the most important principles of learning is effort and rigor. We have studied
the meaning and expectations connected with this short snappy phrase, but what does
it really look like?

Last week I had the good fortune to observe “effort and rigor” at its best. I was
facilitating the Math I portion of the Mastery Test for one of our third grade
students. This particular child has only been in our school since January and the only English
she speaks is what she has acquired since coming to the United States in December. One
would be surprised at how much she has learned in such a short time.

The State mandates that students identified as ELL (non-English
speaking children) enrolled for the first time in a U.S. school after March 2, 2010 may be exempt
from the reading and writing portions of the test. However, they must take the Math
portions of the CMT. They are permitted a reading accommodation so I was reading her
the passages on the test. When the questions required she give a written explanation for
her answer, she was initially stymied. She looked to me for help and when I shared I could
not provide any additional assistance, she continued to think. After a few minutes she started
writing the words she did know and drew pictures for the others. She used names of her
peers she had come to know as the characters in her sentences. Furthermore, she flipped
back in the test for words she remembered and wanted to use that I had read to her in the
prior pages. Her comprehension was amazing. What I am describing is true “effort and
rigor”. She was determined to find a way to express her level of understanding and she did.
Whether or not she receives credit is secondary. Her determination makes her a success.

Every day, the teaching professionals at ** School try to instill the concept of
“effort and rigor” onto their students. We see more and more of our children delving deeper
in the hopes of increasing their level of understanding. I encourage you, the parents, to
support your children in going the extra mile. We are not truly supporting our children as
learners if we make the process too easy or allow them to make excuses. Future outcomes
depend on us supporting our learners to think outside of the box and dig deeper for information.
They need to be thoughtful about their own thinking.

If we empower our children to do this, they will be better not only in the classroom,
but in all aspects of their lives.
~ Merry , Principal

Monday, April 4, 2011

Happy 10th Birthday ShaSha

Well the weekend came and went so fast but was filled with so much love it's amazing.  So many firsts.  She met Grandpa and Grandma Jameson and was very excited about this. As we figured, she took them naturally as if she had known them for years.  While Sha was at school Friday, I completed (with big help from Carolyn and my mom) her Hello Kitty cake.  As you all know the cake was the "make it or break it" factor in this girl's birthday, it's all she has been talking about since we came home.  To my delight it came out great and Sha loved it. We did have a backup, her other cake wish was a pug cake so of course we came through:)  The day of her bday, she wanted Grandpa Mike to pick her up at school in his "fancy" car, she even went so far to ask if he would wear a "hat" just like the limo drivers wear-ha.  Needless to say we picked up her and he did get out to open the door for her but did not have the hat:)  Later that night we went to 9 East with both grandparents and Aunt Joan and Sha got her hibachi she's been also talking about forever.  Our buddies at 9 East gave her a fried ice cream treat and sang Happy Birthday to her, she loved it.  Before we left that night for dinner allowed her to open two of her gifts, one was the big kitchen she wanted and the other one was a bike from Grandpa/ma Jameson.  She loved both of them.  After dinner we came back and Skyped with Grandma Viv and Colin and Cheryl so they could all watch her open their gifts, that was fun for everyone. 

Saturday was the big day, her birthday party!  It went better then I could have asked for.  We had 28 people, most of who Sha had not met yet. She met Aunt Milly and Uncle Mike, Aunt Joanie, Alison and her two girls Melissa and Katie, and Connie and Joe. Paul and I were nervous on how she would handle the crowd, sharing her toys and simply just opening gifts.  She has never had a party like this before nor has she ever received so many gifts at one time so we knew she would get a bit overwhelmed.  However in typical Sha fashion she was great.  It was such an ideal setting, she appears to be grasping the concept that her new forever family just keeps getting bigger and bigger.  One sweet moment was with my cousin's daughter who is 11.  Sha and Katie played most of the day and I kept calling Katie her "Friend" as I didn't want to overwhelm her so much. She knows Katie is my second cousin and at one point in the day she had two plates (she was waiting for chicken nuggets) and Paul said to her, "Who's the other plate for" and Sha replied with "It's for my new cousin"....ahhh melt # 5900.  The day was filled with lots of laughing and fun games. We broke out Wii which was a huge hit for both the kids and adults.  Luckily for Steph and me nobody grabbed the camera:)

On Sunday we took Sha to the Green so she can ride her new bike.  This bike is so great, Grandma/pa Jameson did great with picking it.  She loves it.  It was simply a fantastic weekend...another first and another of many melt.